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Why Jaron Lanier wants you to quite social media-A review of Ten Arguments to Deleting you're social media accounts right now

In an era where social media is practically inescapable, Jaron Lanier’s Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now stands as both a personal memoir and a powerful manifesto. Lanier—one of the pioneers of virtual reality and a longtime tech insider—blends his own experiences with a broader critique of how digital platforms manipulate our behavior, erode our free will, and diminish our mental well-being.Unlike a dry academic critique, this book is deeply personal. Lanier doesn’t just analyze the dark side of social media; he reflects on how it has affected his own life and the world around him. He has seen firsthand how technology, originally meant to empower people, has been hijacked by corporate interests to exploit human psychology. This is what makes Ten Arguments so compelling—it’s not just a call to action, but a deeply introspective look at what we’ve lost in the age of constant connectivity. Social Media as a Manipulation Machine: One of Lanier’s strongest ar...

Hidden heroine:Shazia Parveen- Pakistan's First Female Firefighter who Defied All Odds

In a society where women’s career choices are often confined to traditional roles, stories of resilience shine bright. One such story is that of Shazia Parveen, Pakistan’s first female firefighter, who broke gender stereotypes and proved that no profession is beyond a woman’s reach.Her journey from a small town in Punjab to leading rescue missions is a testament to determination. For years, her story remained unknown, hidden behind the flames she fought and the lives she saved. But with the rise of social media, she became a symbol of strength and empowerment. A Childhood Dream Fueled by Courage : Hailing from Vehari, Punjab, Shazia grew up admiring firefighters who risked their lives to save others. Unlike many girls in her community, she didn’t aspire to be a doctor or teacher—she wanted to battle blazes.Her ambition led her to Rescue 1122, Pakistan’s premier emergency response service. Applying itself was a challenge, as firefighting was an all-male profession at the time. Yet, Sha...

Memoir:A moment of realization

 I always believed weddings were about love-a sacred moment shared between two people, witnessed by those closest to them.But as I stood beneath a canopy of meticulously arranged roses,with camera drones buzzing overhead and influencers perfecting their angles,I realized this wedding was something else entirely.From the digital invitation -an animated masterpiece with countdown,QR code,and wedding hashtag-to the venue,a lavish estate resembling a luxury fashion shoot,every detail was curated for the internet.The ceremony was beautiful-tears were shed,vows exchanged-but with a full production crew on set,it felt more like a staged performance than an intimate union. As I watched the couple recite their vows,I felt an unexpected pang of discomfort.Was this raw emotions, or was it performance?Were they exchanging promises for each other or for thousand watching from the screens?A creeping sense of inadequacy settled in my chest.The entire evening,I found myself unconsciously comparing...